Sunday, July 13, 2008

Morphing Fun



About a month ago, I was adjusting the photos that I had taken on our Lake Tahoe trip. I had just finished cropping photos of Allyse and Joshua, and I was toggling back and forth between them when I noticed that how similar the two of them are. Now, of course I noticed many years ago that they have a certain resemblance, but this was a little eerie.

Just for fun, I downloaded a trial version of some morphing software and created a video of Joshua morphing into Allyse. Unfortunately, as a trial version, it leaves a watermark on the video, but I think the idea is still conveyed.

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Kicking Against the Pricks

I typically do not get really preachy in this blog, but there was a story in the Deseret News that struck me as a pathetic personification of the scriptural phrase, “kicking against the pricks.” A year ago, I saw a story about a Las Vegas man, who claimed membership in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, who put together some beef-cake calendar featuring men who had previously served full-time missions for the Church. The calendar publisher, Chad Hardy, called the calendar Men on a Mission.

Well, it turns out that he is now facing church disciplinary action. The letter from his Stake President was provided to the Associated Press just a few days before Hardy was to release the 2009 version of the calendar. Since disciplinary matters are considered private and the Church does not provide copies of such letters to the press, I am left to assume that Hardy provided the letter, and did so in order to stir up some free publicity for his calendar (which I am also doing by writing about this matter). One has to wonder about how much someone truly values membership in the Church if the individual seeks to use a disciplinary hearing to make more money.

There were some fascinating quotes from the AP article. First, as I had suspected from the inception, the article provides some good insight into where Hardy stands. "Hardy acknowledged he's not been an active member of the church since 2002. A returned missionary who served in southern California, he said he no longer pays church tithing or wears the religious undergarments considered sacred."

Another quote showed either that Hardy is completely ignorant, or disingenuous. I am leaning toward disingenuous due to his willingness to use his disciplinary hearing as a marketing tool – selling his membership for filthy lucre. Hardy claimed that his "right to free speech is being violated." I always laugh when I hear people say this, as I cannot believe that people so badly misunderstand the right to free speech. He is not being imprisoned for his speech. He is free to express himself as he wishes. However, he is not free from the consequences that will naturally flow from such speech. Due to his opinions and his behavior, a private organization may not want its name associated with his. The organization is free to disassociate itself from him.

Hardy stated that the purpose of his calendar was to shake up Mormon stereotypes. (I thought the purpose was to make him some money – silly me). "It's not tearing anybody down," Hardy said. "I wondered what would happen if we took that perfect Disneyland image that the church spends millions of dollars cultivating each year and shook it up a little bit." In other words, he was not tearing anyone down, but he wanted to tear down the carefully cultivated public image of the Church. Hmmmm.

Then, Hardy went on to oddly insinuate that his inactivity is the Church's fault. "In six years, Hardy said he's never been contacted by anyone from the church encouraging his return to the fold and he suspects the current inquiry was driven by the church's Salt Lake City headquarters."

As I stated at the start of this post, this perfectly illustrates the proverbial kicking against the pricks. The phrase comes from farming, and since most people tilled the soil in the not-too-distant past, the analogy was well understood until our generation.

Before mechanization of farming methods, farmers used oxen to work the soil. The prick (or goad) was a useful device to manage oxen.The prick was usually a wooden shaft with a pointed spike (prick) at one end. The farmer working the ox would position the prick so as to exert influence and control over the ox. If the ox refused the farmer’s command, the prick would be used to jab the ox. Sometimes the ox would refuse this incentive by kicking out at the prick. As result, the prick would be driven deeper into the flesh of the rebellious animal. The more the animal rebelled, the more the animal suffered. Therefore, Jesus’ statement to Saul as he fought against His church was that “it is hard for thee to kick against the pricks.” (Acts 9:5).

God has all power, but he gives us the freedom to kick as we wish. However, much like the ox, we are not free from the consequences of such kicking. However, as God’s children, we may elect to disobey Him, but when we disobey, we pay. “[T]he way of transgressors is hard.” (Prov. 13: 15). When we continue to disobey and rebel, we are like the ox – driving the prick in deeper and deeper, hurting ourselves in rebelling against authority.

“[B]ut when we undertake to cover our sins, or to gratify our pride, our vain ambition, . . . behold, the heavens withdraw themselves; the Spirit of the Lord is grieved; and when it is withdrawn, Amen to the priesthood or the authority of that man. Behold, ere he is aware, he is left unto himself, to kick against the pricks, to persecute the saints, and to fight against God.” (D&C 121:37-38).

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Don't Lose Yourself

On Monday morning, following the holiday weekend, I was getting ready to go to work. Angelina, who had apparently gotten used to having me around the home for the previous three days, looked concerned by my putting on the shirt and tie. She came over to me and said, "Daddy, you going to work?" After I replied in the affirmative, she became very serious and said, "Daddy, don't lose yourself."

Good advice, not only for that day, but for life.

Friday, July 4, 2008

Independence Day Tradition

For my entire life, it has been a tradition in our family to spend the Fourth of July at my grandfather's cabin at Mt. Charleston. This rustic cabin, which was built in 1941, has been owned by my grandfather since the early 1950's. Although it is certainly nothing special to look at, it holds a deeply treasured place in the hearts and minds of my family. In society, and in our families, traditions help establish our sense of identity and fill the vital human need to belong.

For decades, the cabin has helped fill the need to belong by serving as the family's gathering place for the summer holidays; Memorial Day, Independence Day and Labor Day always start with a potluck lunch and is followed by a hike to Little Falls.

In between, there are always lots of games, piecing on food, sharing of stories and playing at the Mt. Charleston school.

The Scottish philosopher and essayist Thomas Carlyle wrote, “What an enormous magnifier is tradition! How a thing grows in the human memory and in the human imagination, when love, worship, and all that lies in the human heart, is there to encourage it.” The love that exists within our family has clearly been magnified by the traditional gatherings, where ties are created and friendships are renewed.

Every new generation in our family has been introduced to and made a part of this tradition.

From the time that I was young, going to the cabin meant adventure. Since my earliest memory, children have built forts and clubhouses with tree branches and scrap wood from the area nearby. Sticks served as swords, guns, lightsabers and wands.

Rocks have been used for projectiles, home base, and on occasion, a geology lesson from Grandpa Joe.

In a tradition that does not have to be taught, typical childhood games of army, cops and robbers, cowboys and indians, and now, Star Wars, Pirates of the Caribbean and Harry Potter are played out with each generation.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Woohoo - The Ballard Family Photos Are In

The long-awaited and anticipated Ballard family photos have been posted in a slide show on the Heather Gibb Photography website. Click here and enter "ballard" as the password to see our show. Help us to decide which photos to select.

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Cutie Pie


Angelina looked so cute in her pajamas, sitting by the wall, that I just had to snap this shot. She makes it hard to take a bad photo.
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Blogged Down

I just haven't felt like posting lately. I have kept writing some, but I just needed a break from the blog. Without getting into the boring details, I have been working on a number of technology issues lately. I am still not quite done, but we have made some major improvements, with still more to come. We just acquired a scanner that I believe will allow me to add many of the old photos. I am so looking forward to that (not the work, but the end result).

Technology issues explain part of the reason, but not the whole story. Lately, I just have not felt like blogging. We have been pretty busy, and I know that I need to keep recording what we do: the triumphs, the tragedies, the highs and the lows. However, the heart has to be in it, which it has not of late. The good news is that I feel like I might have found my mojo again, and I'll be working over this coming weekend to make up some lost ground.